Do You Have A Support Team?

January 9, 2013
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Do You Have A Support Team?

2012 was a year of reflection as I traversed some difficult paths in my life. Mainly, I faced more grief, more loss.  It was during this time that I wrote so many blogs that were never published. They were just for me to say goodbye to loved ones and take another step in grieving for Kacy. I began to receive questions from followers, friends and family asking if I planned to blog again.  My intentions were good but I lacked direction and seemed to be floundering.  It wasn’t until I spoke to other siblings who reached out to me through NEDA’s Loss Support Network, and in receiving an email from a woman letting me know my blog was the only place she could find for siblings, that I realized I needed to get back on track.  I also finally realized why I couldn’t move forward. I needed support. It was at this time I decided to reach out to friends and ask for some direction with my blog and speaking path. I brought a brainstorming group together to help me decide if I should continue. If I had enough to say.  Did I have a unique enough story?  How do [...]

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Grief, Feeling The Anger – Part I

March 21, 2012
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Grief, Feeling The Anger – Part I

 My sister, Kacy, died from an eating disorder ten years ago, March 11. As the date approached, I felt disbelief that it had been so long. I read through old journals remembering the incredible path I walked with grief. I was grateful my sadness was…

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2012 National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, A Celebration!

February 29, 2012
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2012 National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, A Celebration!

It’s 2012 National Eating Disorders Awareness Week!! (Feb 26 – March 3) This year’s theme is “Everybody Knows Somebody” and NEDA’s mission is to “ultimately prevent eating disorders and body image issues while reducing the stigma surrounding eating disorders and improving access to treatment. Eating…

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A Quick Thought on a Beautiful Day

January 26, 2012
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A Quick Thought on a Beautiful Day

Today happens to be a beautiful day in San Diego. Actually, stunning. I took the picture to the left as I was contemplating what to discuss in today’s blog.  While…

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Letters From the Past

December 22, 2011
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Letters From the Past

I found a box today I thought had a pair of my husband David’s shoes in them. When I peeked inside I was pleasantly surprised, it was actually some past…

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I haven’t been screaming it

December 9, 2011
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I haven’t been screaming it

A wise and wonderful friend shared with me that she tries to approach decisions by asking herself, “Am I making this decision out of love or fear?” What a concept!…

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